Past, Present, Future
Past: Nine of Water: Your wish comes true! That which you have prayed for finally manifests. Your concerns should now fade as your efforts are rewarded. Financial hopes are currently realized. Good fortune follows you! The simple pleasures in life abound. Luxury and material comforts come to you. You are surrounded by beauty, happiness, and contentment. Love of life, pleasure, freedom, things working out the way you hoped. Self-satisfaction.
Present: Four of Water: It is time to reevaluate your situation, because you are currently missing an opportunity. The solution you are seeking is right in front of your face. Fortunately, positive forces are working to assist you now. Open your eyes to the possibilities, and accept the help that is being offered to you. However, you may be distracted or feel emotionally trapped. It is possible that by focusing on what you don’t have, you are taking for granted the good things that you do have. Discontentment, apathy, daydreaming, getting lost in your own little world, something missing, boredom.
Future: Two of Earth: You are doing too much. You may experience financial instability, or have too many projects on your plate. You are feeling stress, yet you are managing to maintain the status quo at work and home. If you are considering a career change, keep your current job and slowly transition to the new one. The situation you are inquiring about requires a decision from you. Stay open to creative ideas or new perspectives. If you are struggling to make a choice, try a more playful approach. If you lighten up, you may easily find the answer. Dealing with change, working multiple jobs, the need to balance your budget, the ability to adapt.
Additional Card to Explain Two of Earth: 15~ Ego Archangel Jophiel: The Angels want you to know that the entrapment you are feeling is not real. This card indicates that a lot of your feelings are stemming from anxieties that are not based in reality. So, give your fears to God and the angels, and ask for their help in adopting a more positive perspective on this situation. This card also indicates that you are focused upon the material things in life. Heaven acknowledges that you, like everyone, have physical needs. However, you attention to the accumulation of possessions is out of balance. Reassess why you want to acquire these things. Perhaps you are trying to fill an emotional void, which material objects could never do. What you are really craving is inner peace through a spiritual path.
What these cards are showing us is that not so long ago you had everything you desired! You were confident about your relationship with Gabner. You were seeing him and enjoying him. He was texting you and life was grand. Now, in the present, you are second guessing everything you have felt and seen. You have acquired anxieties that are not truly real. They are real in your mind because you are second guessing all you have felt. He was being playful and you too it too seriously. You are missing the fact that he was playing. Your insecurities are taking over. Things are falling away around you not because you are out of control, but because you are stressing over the other factors of life. You felt it was a nightmare because you have to stay legally married to Jorge for three more years to have financial security. This is not working in your favor with your relationship to Gabner. Just as things were going your way, you allowed the fear of being married still to Jorge to overtake your relationship securities with Gabner. To make you feel better, I would encourage you to realize it as it is. Your future card is showing us you need to make a decision about the relationships with Jorge and Gabner. You need to make a decision as to what you want to do with both. I realize you know in your heart that you are already divorced from Jorge, but looks are deceiving and you are living two lives. This is pulling at your heart in so many ways. You are in constant flux because you are not sure what direction you are going in. Archangel Jophiel is telling us to give your fears to God. Let the fears just slip away because they are just fears. You don’t want to be a BFF with Gabner. You feel you are losing everything in other areas of your life (i.e. Mike, financial, stuck with Jorge for 3 years), so why not also lose the best thing in your life right now…Gabner. This is just a fear that is not based on reality. He does care for you and you can see it, but your Ego is telling you different and allowing you to believe such as well.
Question 1: What does she need to know about her relationship with Gabner?
Engagement: Your love life is ascending to a higher level of commitment.
Congratulations! This card signals pending nuptials, beginning with a romantic engagement. Even if you are not presently in a relationship, the Romance Angels can see one upon your horizon. This card comes to you as reassurance-specifically so that you will choose to release any worries about whether you will get married…because you will. Deep romantic love, in which you feel treasured, is “in the cards” for you. The deeper meaning of this card relates to commitment. First, you commit to taking care of yourself. You establish boundaries about what you will and won’t accept in your relationships and in other life areas, such as career, home, lifestyle, and so on. Next, you honor your self-commitment by taking decisive action and telling others how you truthfully feel about their behavior. As you commit to yourself, the universe sends you additional experiences of loving commitment, including the promise of marriage.
Make the Effort: Great love is worth taking the steps you are guided to take.
You received this card because some action steps on your part are necessary in order for your prayers about your love life to be answered. The angels have opened the doors for you, and now it is time for you to walk through them. The first thing that comes to mind with respect for taking action is a good starting place for you. When you ask for spiritual help, you always receive it. Often this help comes in the form of intuitive guidance, which consists of repetitive feelings and thoughts. You get the sense that you “should” do this or that. You received this card as a nudge to actually take that action. You will then receive the next piece of the puzzle, meaning another intuitive message about what to do. If you like, you can ask the angels to give you the motivation, courage, time, and energy to take these steps. Know that each one brings you closer upon the pathway to great love.
Give Your Relationship A Chance: Work on your partnership.
The Romance Angels see that your relationship is worth devoting effort to. Although there may be issues, these can be worked through and healed. You will need to commit to the relationship to ensure the best chances of success. At the very least, if you do end it, you will know that you gave it your all. You will also understand the role that you played in its dynamics. In this way, you will avoid attracting similarly painful situations in the future. You received this card because there is hope for your partnership. The love is still there! Working with a counselor may be your best option at this point. This professional can identify areas of dysfunction and guide you both in healthier directions.
These cards are telling us that there is commitment in your future, but it is going to happen when the time is right. Commitment has to be wanted by both parties. Remember, look through things through his eyes as well. He has shown you he wants you. He has asked to see you. He has missed you and has shown that in his messages and his mannerisms. The next card you received is Make the Effort. This card is telling us that you need to completely make the effort in the relationship. Yes, you have made significant effort, but as we have discussed prior, you are in control of this relationship. You dictate when you are able to come to him. Have faith in yourself and him. Why give up so easily? You have fallen for him…why run when things are just starting to get interesting. Again, the outside craziness of life is not your current relationship with Gabner. The Give Your Relationship a Chance card is telling you that it is not time to run. You are running because you are fearing what is not truly there. Why run when you are just beginning to get what you want? You are wanting to run because he was being playful. You took it personally. If you are that nervous about being a BFF, then make it a point to see him soon and discuss it.
Question 2: How should she move forward with her relationship with Gabner?
11 ~ Balancing Act: “You are calm within, no matter the fluctuation of out conditions.”
There are times when things seem a bit topsy-turvy, and it feels as if you are juggling a thousand balls in the air. Perhaps you are unsure of your footing. Now is the moment to evaluate which areas of your life need balance and then restore equilibrium. Choose harmony over discord, and great success will be yours. You will find inner stability when you choose a balanced, focused, and level path.
33 ~ Peaks of Joy: “Your life is filled with happiness, so share it with others!”
Joy is yours today! No matter what your inquiry, you will be happy with the results. You are coming closer to a sense of achievement, and you have worked hard for it. You are surrounded by true companions, and events that are synchronistically arranged to bring you to the next level of your life. The world is singing a beautiful harmony. Life is exhilarating and hopeful. Let gratitude fill your heart and remember to share your happiness. Joy is contagious!
8 ~ Come Together: “Love needs to be shared.”
Love needs to be expressed. Drawing the Come Together card is a sign that you are on the right path to discover the nature of this emotion in all its forms of expression – romantic, familial, unconditional, spiritual. In each instance, there is another being involved. Love involves a give and a take between you and a significant other, a relative, a friend, an animal, and/or Spirit. This card assures you that love has come calling and seeks a partner in its dance! Know that you are cherished. Like a magnet, you are attracting love into your life! This is the time for harmonious, caring partnerships.
These cards are amazing as you can see. They are telling us that you are trying to balance your life. You are trying to balance your life with Jorge and your future with Gabner. It is not easy learning how to balance the balls of life. You have a lot going on in your life. Between Bri, Jorge, Gabner, it is very daunting, but you are doing your best. See, things with Gabner are going well and you were doing so well! Then you got some yucky news with regards to Jorge and the balls you were juggling started to fall. So why not let the balls of Gabner fall too? This card is telling you to stay focused and stay positive. Our Peaks of Joy card is showing us that you can have peaks of joy within your life if you stay open to them. You have had breakthroughs! You have gained pleasure and knowledge, but it is when things seem the darkest that we forget the power of the light. Stay strong and allow the joy from one area of your life to invade ALL areas of your life. When we receive the Come Together card, we are seeing that our love needs to be expressed. We are seeing that there is harmony in our life, but we need to cherish it. We need to know that even through the tough times we are cherished by others. You are a magnet and are attracting what you truly desire.
Question 3: Should she let go of Gabner? Answer: No and these are the reasons why.
New Home: Moving is a step in the right direction for you.
The fairies are so attuned to the earth’s heartbeat that they can detect changes far before we are aware of them. This card comes to you because the fairies foresee you moving to a new location with positive results. If you ask for their assistance, the fairies can help with this change, including letting of your present home, releasing financial worries, and finding a wonderful new place.
Business Venture: Trust and follow through on a new business idea or career opportunity.
You have been seeking a career change, and you desire self-employment. This card signifies that your recent business ideas are valid and that you can trust your intuition with respect to your career. You will soon receive an offer for a new job, promotion, or other career opportunity. Take the time to meditate upon your true professional desires, as several options are becoming available to you.
Birthday: A significant birthday holds the answer to your question.
You drew this card because your birthday, or the birth date of a significant person in your life, is pivotal to answering your question. Perhaps you meet someone special at a birthday party, or a departed love one in heaven is celebrating your birthday or their own. This card could also signify that the event you desire will occur by your next birthday. Trust your first thought or feelings as to the specific meaning of this card for you, as it is a powerful message.
I don’t feel you should let Gabner go. I feel these cards are telling you that changes are forthcoming, but you need to be open to them. I feel the move and have advised you of this move. This move is both a new home, but also moving forward from letting go of Jorge. By clearing up the bankruptcy, clearing up your credit, you are able to begin anew. The business venture is telling us that something special is going to be happening at work for you. This helps you move forward with this new life with Gabner. You need to begin making better choices for you. The birthday card I feel has something to do with the Summer. Whose birthday is in the Summer? Now, Bri’s birthday is coming up. This could also be a pivotal change for you. I keep seeing July. Something amazing, a significant breakthrough happens in July for you. Keep the faith.
Question 4: What else does she need to know about her relationship with Gabner?
XVIII The Moon ~ Negative Thoughts
We must not fear our dark side but rather accept it without being dominated by it.
The Moon is generally considered the lady of the subconscious par excellence, as well as the manifestation of the precious feminine quality of intuition. She invites you to go beyond the outward appearances of your wish, investigating its darker facets. Trust your instincts; they can warn you of all those impediments which, because of their faded edges can easily conceal themselves. Beware of outward appearances, errors and prejudices.
XIX The Sun ~ Success
We need to confront our success in order to grow and not stop short of realizing our dreams.
The sun in this card radiates luck and optimism. Its rays portray a strong charge of internal energies creating intensification on a moral and psychological level. As children we are always serene, cheerful, and trusting. Then disappointment and bitterness appear and we learn that the world is not the idyllic place we thought it was. But we must recover the certainty that all will eventually be resolved for the best; the heat of the sun is always available to everyone.
X The Wheel of Fortune ~ The Wheel of Life
You should throw yourself into the game of life, even if everything that begins sooner or later must end.
You must reflect on the inevitable alternation of good times and bad times, abundance and scarcity, joy and sorrow, because life is constantly changing, encouraging progress for those who deserve it, and causing the fall of those in the wrong. If you don’t wish for everything to repeat itself, with the same errors and the same dynamics, you must become aware of the mechanism that regulates this process. Put yourself at the center of the wheel and find your balance.
To sum up these cards, fear is what is casting a shadow on your thoughts as of lately. You need to recognize the fear and let it go. Don’t allow it to dictate what you know is true. Success in your relationship with Gabner can be reached, but are you ready for this? Look at the cards. You go from the Moon to the Sun in order. This means that you are in alignment. Know that by making some changes you can acquire the balance that you need to live a life of fullness. Reflect on the fear you have, but release it. Don’t allow it to become your reality.