Are you seeing things in black and white? Are you embracing the grey side of life? When Zebra shows up it is a time to look at how you perceive things. It is time to loosen up. Relax. Be more flexible. More allowing of others opinions. You are both right. Now, allow yourself to see what the other person is so focused upon that you are not seeing. Great minds allow themselves to see what others do. There is conflicting emotions and view points here. You need to step back and know that within each sentence there is a truth. Allow your voice to be heard, but also open yourself up to what others have to say. Why be right if that only proves you lose? Accept that the perception you need right now is from above. Look at your current situation from the view point of a God. Love the fact that you are who you are. Love the fact that the other person is just as human as you are. Compromise. Compromise allows for you both to be right and still be. Take the time to weigh out the options before you. Look at what could be if you are willing to bend.